The Orphan and Family Sponsorship Program of Hand of Help offers churches and individuals the opportunity to help change the world, one child or one family at a time. With the help of ministry volunteers, potential sponsors are connected with orphans at the Hand of Help Orphanage in Botosani, Romania.
Anca and Daniela L, the sisters of Delia L. who joined our family in 2018, come from a family well-known to our ministry. Their family home had always been open to our teams whenever we used to visit the nearby villages to help the families in need. Aurica, their mother, insisted that she fed everyone that came through, regardless of the number of people. She was a hard working sister in Christ, and was our contact person for different situations that our brothers and sisters were confronted with in the villages surrounding Tudor Vladimirescu. Moreover, she used to travel with us every time to personally visit the families in need and pray with us over them.
She was a role model not only for her fourteen children but also for us and every other person that met her. She kept an impeccable house, always made sure she had cooked food for her family, and all the visitors that came by, and her storage room was full of homemade jars of jams, preserves, vegetables for winter, and so much more. Always faithful, always grateful, she worked day by day to make sure she was a wife, a mother and an example to all, according to what Christ taught us to be.
The month of February, 2017 was when we received the terrible news. Following a massive stroke and months in a coma, the Lord had taken Aurica home and into eternal rest. The news was so sudden that most of the people could not even believe it. Eight of her fourteen children were still living at home, the youngest being only six years old. With the father at work all day trying to make ends meet, his children were left alone, with no one to help them. The older girls, teenagers themselves, had to take the maternal role for the younger ones. It was after a few months that the father, a hard-working individual working two shifts, realized that he would not be able to raise the children by himself and assist them in attending high school, the closest being almost 20 miles away.
Although having learned so much from their mother and trying their best to keep the house in place, it was soon obvious that the older girls were doing all this at the cost of their own well-being, often times putting school on a secondary place and heading towards completely giving up their education.
When their father asked for our help, we immediately started working with local authorities to get the approval to welcome the sisters to our orphanage.
All three sisters have adjusted very quickly to our center and have are exceptional role models to the younger girls. The girls started high-school in 2018 and are showing huge improvements with each passing day. For now, their desire is to become nurses.
Both Anca and Daniela, just like Delia, have learned from their mother to tend to all types of chores around a house and are always helping our staff with cleaning, cooking, mending clothes, etc.
Anca plays the guitar and Daniela the block flute in our orchestra. Please pray for these sisters; despite having lost their mother, mentor and role model, we believe that our Lord can fill the void in them and that a testimony of His Love and Sovereignty will arise from all these events.
The light of their mother shines through her daughters and oftentimes we are the ones being encouraged by their unmovable faith in God. We thank you for giving us the chance to help these young girls continue their path to maturity, making sure that they lack nothing and that they always have someone to rely on.
To sponsor Anca L, go to the Sponsor Today page, and click "I want to sponsor a child", and enter "Anca L - Child of the month" under the Child Name section.
How was the Orphan and Family Sponsorship Program started?
How do I join the program?
How much does it cost to sign up?
How does the child or family benefit from the money that I provide?
What is the sponsorship schedule? How do I contribute?
What happens if a parent or relative removes the child that I am sponsoring?
Will I receive receipts for my support?
Will I receive information about a specific child or family?
Can I write to my sponsored child?
Can I send gifts to my child or family?
What happens to my child or family if I am unable to send the monthly support?
Can a group, church, or organization jointly sponsor a child or family?
How was the Orphan and Family Sponsorship Program started? The Orphan and Family Sponsorship Program is an outreach project of Hand of Help. Throughout the Communist years, the Duduman and Boldea families were actively sharing the Word of God by smuggling Bibles into Romania and by their personal testimony. For these crimes, they were expelled from Romania in 1984 and came to the United States for refuge. Their labors continued as they shipped boxes of relief supples to pastors and impoverished brethren back home. Finally in 1989, the Communist Government was overthrown and freedom came to Romania. Since that time Hand of Help has shipped many containers filled with medical supplies, food, clothing, and other items which are so desperately needed. These shipments are delivered door-to-door throughout Romania to needy families, pastors, and elderly Christians who are all alone and destitute. Before his death Dumitru Duduman began construction on an orphanage in Botosani, Romania. This seemed like an impossible undertaking, but God provided the finances to complete the task. Brother Dumitru lived to see his orphanage open, but only for a short while. As the first children were received in, Brother Dumitru went to be with the Lord. The work was passed on to his daughter, Virginia Boldea. Together with her husband, Mike Sr. and her son Mike Jr. she has managed to keep the orphanage going and fight her way through regulations and governmental ordinances to running a privately owned Christ-centered orphanage in a country that was under Communist rule for 50 years. The situation has become more and more difficult within Romania with higher unemployement and higher inflation. The container loads of food and winter clothing that arrive are received by the needy brethren as God's answer to their prayer. The orphanage also is completely dependent upon help from brethren back in the U.S. Food and other necessities are shipped as they are received at our office, but many thousands of dollars are still needed to finance the day-to-day operation of the orphanage in Botosani.
How do I join the program? Go to the Sponsor Today link at handofhelp.com and/or request a sponsorship form by emailing email@example.com. We will contact you to discuss your choice of children or families that are in need of sponsors.
How much does it cost to sign up? The average monthly sponsorship amount is approximately $25.00 per month. The average cost however needed to raise a child per month is $500.00. This covers food, clothing, education, orphanage operations, teacher's salary, Doctor's salary, and general employee's needed to care for the orphans. Each sponsor has the option of deciding the amount in which they desire to support their child or family. We would like to generate enough sponsors to meet this financial need. In whatever amount you chose to benefit your sponsored child, know that each child will be cared for with the same loving care regardless. Thank you for your heart in helping the plight of the Romanian orphans and poor families.
How does the child or family benefit from the money that I provide? Your support helps the child with adequate food, clothing, basic medical care, and housing. In cases of school age children, your support may also help to pay fees, school supplies, and books.
What is the sponsorship schedule? How do I contribute? Payment begins on the month that sponsorship begins. Donations can be made online at handofhelp.com or checks or money orders can be made out to "Hand of Help" with Sponsorship Program written in the memo portion of your giving. The child's or family's name should be written in this area as well. All checks and money orders should be mailed to our Garland Texas office each month if you are not posting online.
What happens if a parent or relative removes the child that I am sponsoring? A small percentage of the children will eventually be reunited with a parent or family member. In such cases the need for sponsorship is increased, not lessened. You will be given the opportunity to continue your sponsorship of the child and his or her family, or you may select another child from those who do not have sponsors.
Can I write to my sponsored child? Yes. Our ministry co-workers will translate your letter. Your child will also be able to write letters to you. Our ministry co-workers are responsible for developing pictures which will be sent to you along with the letter.
Can I send gifts to my child or family? We have implemented a new program called designated giving. Rather than use contributor's money for shipping used clothing and Birthday items, we have found it more cost effective for sponsor's to send a designated gift amount on Birthday's and/or Christmas. We then have designated staff that take the children shopping for what they need and a small little gift. This way we are giving them a personal choice for something they need and like as well as an opportunity to be about in the community with staff. (Strengthening social, math, and economic stills.) We discourage sponsors to send gifts to the orphanage as it causes much jealousy among the children as not all sponsors are able to send gifts, this way the children are less likely to be hurt.
What happens to my child or family if I am unable to send the monthly support? None of the children at the Hand of Help Orphanage will be refused services when a sponsor stops sending support. Basic services will continue to be provided for the child while we search for another sponsor. Families that lose sponsors will be assisted through our general fund until a new sponsor can be found.
Can a group, church, or organization jointly sponsor a child or family? Yes, we encourage joint sponsorships. This method is less personal for the sponsor but the needs of the child or family are still met. Children that are placed at the orphanage on a short term basis will also need a sponsor during their stay of four to six months.